A HAPPY BIRTHDAY to my dad who turned FIFTY today!
I gifted him with a card that may or may not have had the word ‘fart’ numerous times and a bag of Wal-Mart brand jelly fruit slices.
I don’t think you could ask for a better daughter than me, personally.
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😀 = ME this morning. Ah who am I kidding. I am SO not a morning person. But I am an oatmeal person.
I always say if it ain’t broke, don’t fix it. And I didn’t.
Same oatmeal as yesterday, just a little messier.
TODAY WAS MY FRIDAY!!! WOOOOOOOT.
I am so excited to be going to Fitbloggin this weekend and hanging out with so many lovely ladies, attending what is sure to be an awesome, inspiring conference and just in general an incredible weekend.
So excited in fact that I ate eggs for lunch.
That is in fact and ‘egg sandwich’ because there is a pita hiding under those eggs. I bought a lot of pitas at the grocery store, in case you were wondering.
On the side I had this grapefruit:
with, *gasp* Splenda. I feel sort of guilty about that, so much in fact it’s a little blurry. But there is no hiding those two packets of Splenda. I hang my head in shame that you now know my nasty habit.
When we were finishing up lunch my boss came in with a ‘treat’.
Gorg.
My coworker and I split this little baby and it was as gorgeous in my mouth as it was to look at.
Murdered.
You’d be kidding yourself if you thought that not three hours later I had a snack attack.
Banana Bread Larabar from Allison! DEEEELICIOUS!
After work I stopped at Wally world for Dad a present. I fully intend to purchase him a ‘real’ gift this weekend. Fathers are just difficult to shop for, I find. He likes music, so last year I bought him iTunes gift cards.
I ended up using them myself.
Any suggestions on the gift giving front are welcome.
Mama D. made a birthday dinner, so I was invited back home. Which is nice, since I would have crashed it had I not been invited.
Mama D. made lentils, rice and some vegetable mixture that she called by a funny name. I don’t know these things.
And homemade hummus and pita chips.
I ate so many pita chips that I swear my tongue is raw. Stacy, why is your product so addicting?
I had a small sliver of cake for dessert but I was so classy I did not eat it off a plate. So therefore no picture.
Later I napped on the living room floor like old times until I was booted out the door. I had to pack for the weekend, so I gathered up my things and scurried off with my tail between my legs. I was leaving anyway!!! I could be heard yelling for miles.
Believe whatever parts of that last paragraph that you want to.
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Moving on, I want to give a huge THANK YOU to you guys for your lovely comments on my outfit and general person in my last post. It was totally unexpected and thus the reason I love you guys SO MUCH.
You see, it was just what I needed.
I have been feeling so down because I am just not losing the weight I have gained, and I have been pretty bummed about it. I had a huge breakdown on my sisters just YESTERDAY about it in fact. But we don’t blog about the ugly, do we? And the way I was hating on myself was ugly.
The sad thing is, I knew it. I knew what I was thinking was wrong, but I still thought it. The truth is that yes, I’ve gained a few pounds but THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH MY BODY THE WAY IT IS.
We can’t all be 120 lbs all the time.
I know that I am strong and healthy, and really that’s what matters. I may have a few curves going on, but God gave them to me. I’ve gotta love what I’ve got!
You guys just proved that, and I love you for it.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
“We can’t all be 120 lbs all the time.” AMEN. I cannot tell you how happy that makes me to read. Needed to hear that today. Thank you.
Happy Birthday to your daddy!
I second that amen. The less time you spend fighting it the more time you spend living. And that’s what’s important.
It will all balance out. Besides. A number doesn’t mean anything.
Xoxo
You are gorgeous girly! ❤ Happy bday to your Dad!
Oh wow! 50? Congrats to him!
awwww…. dont be sad…
I had worst day about my weight today since I’ve had in a couple weeks and I can totally sympathize with you feeling down 😦
The scale budged and I spazzed but I FELT okay-ish-somewhat….
But whoa… you always seem to have so much confidence 🙂
I never thought that you would have weight problems too!
Well.. you know what they say… we’re all in this together~~
Anyhoo… You are SOOO pretty and I just want you to remember that.
-a daily reader
* just to revise my earlier statement
NOT ‘problems’… more of lightning fast insecurities that we all seem to unfortunately have at one time or another 🙂
Okay, hear me out and don’t think I am totally lame.
We are animals right? So whenever I’m feeling ugly, fat, bad hair day, whatever, I always say, “If I were a cat, would I be all depressed that my stomach sticks out a little?” or “If I were a cow would I be all pissed about the pattern of my spots?” and I know that if I were a dog, I could care less if I weighed 45 or 52 pounds.
I haven’t been drinking, I promise.
Being happy & healthy in your own body is the most important thing! As is destroying that scale. I will never own one ever ever again.
Stumbled across your blog via’s Lara’s tweet. I second her “amen”. I really enjoy being a 120 but it’s just too much work for me to stay there all the time. I’ve learned (somewhat begrudgingly) to love my body even when it’s not there.
I have always thought you look amazing!
I agree Dad’s are a pain to buy for. Enjoy your trip.
I loved your post… and I think some of it is because “120” is my “ideal” though it’s crazy to get mad at myself that I haven’t been there in awhile. I’ve been a little hard on myself about it lately but I treat my body well, and eat balanced (mostly ;)), so why not just enjoy life. Life won’t start at a certain weight of all things, gotta live it up NOW! I didn’t comment on the previous post but I loved your outfit and thought it fit you perfectly! 🙂
I don’t think anyone would look at you and see you as anything but gorgeous! And incredibly strong. You ran a marathon! That’s amazing!
For my dad’s 50th two years ago we got him a new BBQ since the one he had was a relic purchased somewhere around the time I was born (1989). I think it’s been the only good gift idea I’ve ever had for him. I agree, dads are really hard to shop for. Good luck!
And I hope you have fun this weekend!! 🙂
Isn’t it crazy – I guess it just goes to show that you never really do know what other people are thinking, and that even the people that you envy could be thinking badly of themselves and unfavourably comparing themselves with others! And excuse me while I untangle my tongue and learn how to write a sentence that makes sense. For the record, I 100% meant my comment on your last post. I looked at the photo of you and (without actually mentally disparaging myself all that much, wonder of wonders – it really was just a moment of genuine admiration) and thought, “Wow, she has the exact figure that is classically and genuinely attractive, to both men and women. Head turner!” I would never, in a million years, have guessed that you would be thinking that you weighed too much. All I thought was that you had a totally rocking body. And I will now stop before I *do* start to sound pervy. 🙂
I think you’re gorgeous. Seriously. If I was into comparing (which I’m not because it’s pretty uncool for many reasons) you are the most beautiful blogger of those that I read. Why? Because not only are you physically AMAZING looking (with great hair, no less!), you also radiate sweetness, sassiness, and kindness, and you love God! Pretty rad, huh? Yeah, I thought so. 🙂
i love your attitude about your body at the end of this post. we all have doubts about ourselves, but if we know that we are truly beautiful regardless then that’s all that matters! and trust me girlie – YOU. ARE. GORGEOUS!!! and i mean that with 100% certainty
Whitney! You are be-a-u-tiful! Don’t let a few extra pounds get you down 😦 Seriously, you are a strong person and a fashionista at that, don’t you dare hang your head low!!
Excited about this weekend (errr, today!)! NOT excited about the plane
you look great don’t feel bummed. You are doing amazing things, you eat healthy, your living your life and having fun, and that is what really matters!
It looks like you had a good time with your family 🙂
I just bought a bag of stacys yesterday- they’re about half gone now!
it’s funny when things like that happen, isn’t it? The days we really need some encouragement…it just happens. You are beautiful, girl 🙂
Happy Birthday to your Dad! so sad I couldn’t make it to FitBloggin’! We need to meet at some point.
Happy Birthday to your dad!
I know we all those days and times when we feel down about our bodies – we seriously all do. I even think Gisele does. I mean – I TELL myself she does…it makes me hate her a little less. But you are right in that there is NOTHING wrong with your body – you are healthy, strong and happy. And absolutely gorgeous to boot!
1. You are so gorgeous. I really, sincerely wish I could have your figure!
2. I dreamed about you last night. Ok, so that mayyy sound a bit creepy after my last statement, but ’tis true. I dreamed I was either visiting or lived in Charlotte and we were BFF and hung out with lots of friends all the time and I liked your church. 🙂
haha, how’s that for a random, specific dream!?
Whit you are beautiful inside and out!! I completely understand your frustrations as I am going through the same thing.. I just trying to think positive and know that I workout and I am healthy no matter what the scale says.. Being out age is can be so difficult sometimes.. please let me know if you need anything..
xoxo
you are a gorgeous person in all facets of life. and i don’t want my whittyboo hatin’ on herself because she is funny, has the cutest southern accent, wears her heart on her sleeve, has a killer haircut and is a person i like to call my friend. don’t you forget it 🙂
love you lady, and shake whatcha mama(d) gave ya!
Dads really are the worst to shop for! My dad always pretends like he doesn’t need or want anything… lame I say!
And you are a cutie- please don’t be down! 🙂
…sometimes it’s important to blog about the ugly… The blogosphere is a very supportive place!
You are spot on when you say we don’t blog about the ugly.. but I really think we should start because that’s what makes us human. We are not perfect. (And who would want to be??)
Work those curves girl! You are a strong and beautiful woman!! but I have to say that I know how you are feeling.. I have been there too. Keep your head up and have a fabulous time at fitbloggin! xoxo
My right THIGH weighs 120. But kidding aside, I know what you mean. Great that you can have a good attitude about it. I do look lovely.
you are beautiful and I am so happy that you realized this!! happy birthday to your dad! my dads bday is tomorrow!
it is so rare to blog about how ugly we feel or if we are having a bad day, but ya know what, this s life and it does happen, so it takes a really strong person to talk about that!
have a great day, oh and don’t feel guilty about the splenda, I love it every now and then! everything in moderation! 🙂
I just read your last post and bookmarked it so I would remember to comment tonight and tell you how incredibly gorgeous you looked. I love your figure! Then I saw this post and figured I might as well just tell ya now! 🙂
Also, for your pop’s birthday, what about a framed picture of you two? I gave that to my dad once and it’s the only thing that’s not work related that he keeps on his desk. 🙂
I think you look AMAZING! 🙂
you’re so beautiful and gorgeous! take each day one at a time and stay healthy! i think you have a bangin body! and your smile is contagious 🙂
“I know that I am strong and healthy, and really that’s what matters.” – So true. But it’s also so easy to get frustrated at times. Thanks for being so honest and for reminding us all that we can move on and be happy with ourselves just the way we are! Love your green shirt in yesterday’s post. You look great.
Whit– I didn’t comment on your last post bc I think I was reading it as I was falling asleep haha but I feel compelled to tell you that I remember (even in my almost-asleep delirious state) thinking that you looked INCREDIBLE. because you do. you’re stunning and radiant and have all the reason in the world to looooove yoself! xoxo
happy bday to your daddio! thank you for the rambles at the end. i am having a hard time w/ my weight gain too. that is just what i needed 🙂 love you!
I spent my birthday (wednesday) cryin in my teacups because I’m not happy with how I’m looking at the ripe old age of (now) 34.
So thanks for the comment “we can’t all be 120lbs”. That is so true.
*****But you can bet I’ll be sashaying around the house singing “Angel is a Centerfold” when I get there! A feather boa and platforms may be involved. I’ll keep you posted ;-)*****
whit you are beautiful no matter what you look like! i think you look AWESOME and you radiate beauty! seriously.
happy bday to your DADDY!
I love larabars. I made some homemade ones yesterday for a snack. Taste just as good, and saves you money =)
i won’t lie and not say that i’m SUPER jealous you’re at fitbloggin right now! blahh!!! can’t wait to see all your picture recaps 🙂
might i say that your hair looks ridic good in that first picture. you’ve got some stellar volumesk stylin goin on thur
happy birthday to your papa!!